Saturday, June 27, 2009

Allowance & Chores

{I'm taking a little break from unpacking, ok?}

So I thought I would do a post on our system of allowance. Tons of people have asked me about how I do things. Seriously, it's nothing earth shattering but I'm astounded about how well it works for our family. Here are the details:

- The big kids get $1 for every year old they are, each week. Kenna gets $4 and Carter gets $6.

- We pay their allowance to them using quarters.

- They are required to pay tithing (10%) and save (40%), leaving 50% to spend. We round up using the quarters. It never hurt anyone to pay a little bit extra tithing anyway ;). The saving gets transferred to a bank account every couple months. {And when I start running out of quarters, I transfer things into dollar bills} These are the jars that we use to divide up their money:


- Allowance is NOT tied to chores. I want my kids to help around the house because they are part of our family. My kids do have chore charts and are expected to complete them every day.

Their daily chores: Make bed, pick up toys, empty dishwasher, take out trash/recycling, set the dinner table, plus one varying chore every day (wash windows, wipe down bathroom, dust, wash off appliances, clean baseboards, take trash out of car, etc.)

- However, allowance can be lost for complaining about chores or not doing them. We usually give one warning and then they lose a quarter out of their SPENDING money. The kids can also lose quarters for back talking, breaking a rule, having to be asked several times to do something, etc. I'm big on giving them a warning before taking it away. And it almost always only takes one warning.

- The kids have 24 hours to earn quarters back by doing an extra chore. After that, it's mine.

So that's the gist of it. I especially love it because it is giving them great lessons about money. I love that when we go out shopping and they ask for things I tell them that yes, they can buy it, with their allowance money {right down to the candy in the gumball machines - I'm a hard nose!!}. I can almost ALWAYS tell them yes but then it is up to them to decide if they really want it. Sometimes they go for the silly, frivolous dollar spot toys but they're doing that less and less. Carter is saving up his spend money for a new Wii game. He has worked hard and I am really proud of how he has stayed focused on his goal.

So that's it. Hopefully that helps someone. Let me know if you have questions about our system.

{Oh, the jars are from Dollar Tree and I just used scrapbooking rubons for the lettering. You could also order cute vinyl lettering for them.}

11 comments:

Meghan said...

I love those ideas! I totally agree with not tying allowance to jobs. Jobs should be expected, not bribed. Great ideas Monique...

Kristi said...

Great system! Love that you are teaching your kids the value of money, the blessing of tithing, and the importance of saving. :)

Hilary said...

I love your ideas! And what cute jars!

Hope you're settling in okay!

Elisa said...

What a great idea; I may have to use this in the future with our kids. Good job instilling in them early on the importance of paying tithing and saving money.

Kayla said...

i'm glad you're taking a break from unpacking. you deserve it, i know you're life has been occupied by this move for the last few weeks.

thanks for sharing your allowance ideas with us all. cute jars.

(i didn't know whether or not to tell you this, but the other day when I told A. to go and do her morning chores, she asked why we don'g get paid to do them like Carter does?.....)

Anonymous said...

Smart mom! And, children are learning valuable life skills. Can we do "overs" with parenting?
Mom

Anonymous said...

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Allen

Melissa said...

Great ideas, thanks for sharing. I've also been hesitant to pay my kids for chores, glad to know I'm not the only one. I like your system.

As for a visit, yes and yes! I think the main days that won't work for me are July 8-11, and then it just depends if you want to do an evening sans children, or a day-time play date, or what. I have stuff scheduled some days and some evenings, but plenty of openings as well. What are you thinking? Can't wait!

lnkmom said...

Great ideas! I like the 3 seperate jars... makes it easier to see how it's all divided.

andrea said...

I'm so happy you arrived safe and sound. You are a trooper, that's for sure.

I love this allowance idea. I have wanted to start something like this but wasn't sure what the kids could earn money for since I also didn't want it attached to their chores.

Just a ??--will you have 9 jars sitting out someday or is there an easier way I am not thinking of? Love it. You have the best ideas ever.

Amy Coons said...

I'm re-evaluating our money situation with our kids. I really like this. :) Thanks for sharing!