Saturday, November 03, 2007

A bad day at black rock...

I know that is the MOST random blog post title ever. It's actually the name of a Melodrama I did in Girl Scouts back in 4th grade when my mom was our leader (mom, do you remember that?!?)

Have you ever noticed how everyone in blogland always has a perfect day with perfectly groomed and dressed children? Yeah, not my day today. If you haven't guessed by now, today was a bad day. I'm in a bad mood. And since I'm keeping it real and this is my journal, I thought I would document it for my posterity (and all of you, my lucky blog readers - heh).

First of all, Al had to work all day. Yuck. I hate when the weekend feels no different than the rest of the week. He only has to pull the all day Saturdays every couple months but it still stinks. Then this afternoon I REALLY wanted to do something fun as a family but Al got home late and I swear Phoenix really lacks in the family activity department. Plus (see, I'm griping here), the valley is SO spread out that it takes forever to get anywhere.

The icing on the proverbial cake is that it was 93 degrees today. 93 degrees. On November 3rd. See, there are things I actually like about living here. I like my house, a lot. I love our ward. I love that Al loves his job. I hate.loathe.despise.detest the weather. We were outside playing this afternoon and I was literally fighting back the tears. Call it pregnancy hormones or whatever but I seriously cannot handle the weather here. Usually, I'm in full holiday spirit by now. But really, how can you feel remotely festive when it's 93 degrees outside? And lucky me, the 10 day forecast calls for days in the 90s until the 10th- then we'll cool down to the 80s. Someone shoot me. I think I have seasonal depression - depression due to the lack of seasons in my case.

Then there's the house projects. Yep, we have yet to finish a single project. Circumstances beyond our control -- like Al having insane 70 hour work weeks the last 3 weeks, me being deathly ill for a week, holidays, things like that --have gotten in the way of finishing the girls' room. Which, if you know me well, you know how it is driving me nutso to have my house torn up. And it's taking a looooong time. I consider us fairly accomplished do it yourselfers but this project has been a huge undertaking for some reason. The end is in sight though. I want to be done with it and working on Carter's room by the end of the week.

Al shooed me out of the house tonight because I think everyone was a little sick of grumpy mom. I ran some quick errands (yet another trip to Home Depot) which go amazingly fast when you're alone. I stopped for a few things at the grocery store which turned into $35 worth of comfort food, including the seasons first bag of mint M&Ms (so glad they only make these at Christmastime). After about an hour I felt rejuvenated and headed home for the nightly routine. Now it's on to getting ready for church and more of our painting project.

In order to end the post on a high note, here are 10 good things about today:

1. Previously mentioned mint M&Ms
2. My friend Karolyn found me during the kickball game and we got to visit for an hour
3. Makenna's dresser that we ordered 4 months ago finally arrived unscathed (this is their 5th attempt at delivery and the first time the dresser has been undamaged)
4. Fountain diet coke on the way home from errands
5. I got to take a short nap while the kids slept
6. I finished a scrapbook page
7. The laundry is caught up for once
8. My kids are sick of their Halloween candy (yay!)
9. Honey crisp apples - yum!
10. My kids and husband are really cute and still love me even when I'm grumpy

The end. Thanks for bearing with me (and yes, I know that there are people in the world with REAL problems, and mine don't remotely qualify as real problems, but I actually feel better after writing this all out).

12 comments:

Melissa said...

I have to say it was somewhat refreshing to read your blog and all of its "realness," although it made for a bad day. I hope tomorrow is better! And for your list, I am so with you on the honeycrisp apples - they are so super yummy! I am addicted (not a bad addiction though). Crazy fact: they were created by people at the University of Minnesota. :)

lnkmom said...

I am sorry to say I too love the reality of your post. I'm sorry you had such a rough day, I can so relate to the whole "everyone is sick of mommy" thing! I so wish I could send some good ol' New England Fall weather to you!!! Hopefully it will get better after the new Princess is born!

mindy said...

So sorry. It does suck when husbands work weekends. Charles works almost every Saturday and Sunday and it can get really old. I did like your list of 10 good things. I hope the rest of the days get better. And I understand your weather gripe. I can't imagine how it feels.

A said...

Yeah for REALITY. I feel like I spend half of my days grumpy, if that's any consolation. (And the weather is way too warm here to get into the holiday spirit as well).

andrea said...

I hear you. I HATE, HATE the weather here. Hate it.

Kayla said...

now, you know i'm ALWAYS happy, and have the perfect kids who ALWAYS have perfect hair who NEVER frustrate me....NOT! I had quite the grumpy day on Saturday too, but my Sunday has been much better. HOpe yours is too. Here's to happy days, some cooler weather, and getting some house projects done! (and just remember that it always feels worse when you're pg....)

Anonymous said...

Meeque,

I heard a talk once where the speaker said, "If you write down your spiritual experiences, you'll have more spiritual experiences." Soo..
If one writes down grumpy experiences, will she have...?

Love,

Mom

Jan Russell said...

Monique - sorry you had a crummy day! I totally agree about the weather affecting your mood - it has been WEIRD WARM here in PA this fall, and I spent all of October complaining about it.

I'd rather be an occasional grump then a fake or phoney. Any day. I'm glad you keep your blog "real" ;-)

I hope your projects get finished up soon - I know the end results will be fab-u-lous!

Wendie said...

I like all of your entries, grumpy or not! ;) I hope today was better. Hang in there with the weather. You may actually be thankful for it in January. I know I will be.

Casey said...

I totally hear you on the honey crisp apples. I swear they are the best apples ever!

Sorry to hear your day was yucky. I have those days too. I can't imagine having a sucky day in 93 degree heat. I would have died! :)

Hilary said...

The title cracks me up!

Your bad day sounds so familiar! I'm really sorry for your super hot weather... I would hate living in AZ just for that fact.

I hope you can finish your projects soon. I hate that unfinished feeling too.

Lori said...

I REALLY wish I could send you some Minnesota weather! We saw snow for the first time today. And as much as I like seasons, you will hear me gripe on my blog about how long winter lasts here. I wish we could TRADE! I am taking notes from your blog though, I think I am going to try to write some "real" stuff too. Thanks for the thoughts.